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Just a teenage girl living life, trying to find out who she really is with a lot of love for: writing, winter, Super Junior, braided hair, Seoul, day dreaming, glitter, flowers, glossy magazines, stationery, Girls' Generation, traveling, cute photos, food, music, fanfiction, Hallyu Wave, nail polish, Taylor Swift, cute movies, inspiring quotes, Polyvore, reading, design, EXO, sleep, sunsets, History, dance, Pinkberry, and many more things.
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daenso:

Since my first giveaway was daebak (and the winner also sent me a pic of the albums she received and a little paper with a ‘thank you’ on it, i’m still freaking out for that) i’ve decided to plan a brand new giveaway, are you happy? The items will be the same of the first giveaway with some additions and there’s a surprise because my sis joined my idea and we made a bet, i will explain this later. I turned this into a shineexo only giveaway because my blog is shineexo. As always my giveaway is mostly for my followers. Below you can find the items and the rules. Please read and don’t delete this text.

Items:- shinee’s sherlock album (onew vers.)- shinee’s everybody goods notebook (like these) new- shinee’s sherlock notebook (everyone) new- shinee’s socks (everyone but jonghyun)- shinee’s stickers for a cream promotion- shinee’s boys meet u (cd and dvd)- shinee’s the misconceptions of me (and you)- shinee’s everybody (don’t know if with poster or not)- shinee’s first concert shinee world in seoul DVD- exo’s calendar 2014 new- exo’s miracles in december album (m/k versions) new- exo’s mama (exok and exom)- some exo posters (various eras) new- exo’s xoxo repackage (kiss + hug)- exom’s socks (everyone but chen)- exo’s shirts (size s and m, like these)- exo’s earcaps (like these)- mblaq’s calendar 2013- mblaq’s blaqstyle

Surprise surprise!As I said before, my sis joined my idea for this giveaway and she bet that if this giveaway will reach at least 1,000 reblogs she will give away her bonus on kpoptown. The bonus is like a credit of 40 euros, so if this giveaway reaches 1,000 reblogs there will be a second winner that will have this bonus, this means s/he can choose any item (only one) on kpoptown under 40 euros.
Rules:- to participate, you have to reblog (as much as you want, but don’t spam).- no giveaway blogs allowed, i will check. *- you can follow me if you want, but if you have to unfollow me later, i prefer you don’t. this giveaway is planned for my followers anyway.- likes don’t count (and my tumblr doesn’t show them so..)- do not delete this text, i will fucking check!
Info:The winners will be two persons: the first will choose two items from this list, the second will receive the bonus (only if my sis loses the bet). Please, answer my message quickly; the winners have 48 hours to reply. Be sure your askbox is open! / I will ship worldwide, so don’t worry about money and place, it will take a bit of time tho. / The winner will be chosen by random.org / You can ask questions in my inbox, but please don’t write too many messages, everything you need to know is in this post. / This giveaway will be deleted if this post doesn’t reach at least 50 notes (just because it’s cool). / For information: daenso

Start: 26 january 2014 (GMT+1) End: 26 march 2014 (GMT+1)GOOD LUCK! (and since i will be on hiatus til march, my friend who will run my blog for me will answer your questions or you have to wait for weekends if you want me to answer them)
29 Problems Only Writers Will Understand

Yep.

If I were really really ridiculously wealthy, I wouldn’t buy a mansion, just tiny apartments in every city I love.
—Mara Wilson (via epikhi)

(Source: du-bonheur-et-rien-d-autre)

Artist: Ailee
Track: "Let It Go (Frozen OST)"
when she was 7, a boy pushed her on the playground
she fell headfirst into the dirt and came up with a mouthful of gravel and lines of blood chasing each other down her legs
when she told her teacher what happened, she laughed and said ‘boys will be boys honey don’t let it bother you
he probably just thinks you’re cute’
but the thing is,
when you tell a little girl who has rocks in her teeth and scabs on her knees that hurt and attention are the same
you teach her that boys show their affection through aggression
and she grows into a young woman who constantly mistakes the two
because no one ever taught her the difference
‘boys will be boys’
turns into
‘that’s how he shows his love’
and bruises start to feel like the imprint of lips
she goes to school with a busted mouth in high school and says she was hit with a basketball instead of his fist
the one adult she tells scolds her
‘you know he loses his temper easily
why the hell did you have to provoke him?’
so she shrinks
folds into herself, flinches every time a man raises his voice
by the time she’s 16 she’s learned her job well
be quiet, be soft, be easy
don’t give him a reason
but for all her efforts, he still finds one
‘boys will be boys’ rings in her head
‘boys will be boys
he doesn’t mean it
he can’t help it’
she’s 7 years old on the playground again
with a mouth full of rocks and blood that tastes like copper love
because boys will be boys baby don’t you know
that’s just how he shows he cares
she’s 18 now and they’re drunk
in the split second it takes for her words to enter his ears they’re ruined
like a glass heirloom being dropped between the hands of generations
she meant them to open his arms but they curl his fists and suddenly his hands are on her and her head hits the wall and all of the goddamn words in the world couldn’t save them in this moment
she touches the bruise the next day
boys will be boys
aggression, affection, violence, love
how does she separate them when she learned so early that they’re inextricably bound, tangled in a constant tug-of-war
she draws tally marks on her walls ratios of kisses to bruises
one entire side of her bedroom turns purple, one entire side of her body
boys will be boys will be boys will be boys
when she’s 20, a boy touches her hips and she jumps
he asks her who the hell taught her to be scared like that and she wants to laugh
doesn’t he know that boys will be boys?
it took her 13 years to unlearn that lesson from the playground
so I guess what I’m trying to say is
i will talk until my voice is hoarse so that my little sister understands that aggression and affection are two entirely separate things
baby they exist in difference universes
my niece can’t even speak yet but I think I’ll start with her now
don’t ever accept the excuse that boys will be boys
don’t ever let him put his hands on you like that
if you see hate blazing in his eyes don’t you ever confuse it with love
baby love won’t hurt when it comes
you won’t have to hide it under long sleeves during the summer
and
the only reason he should ever reach out his hand
is to hold yours

Fortesa Latifi - Boys Will Be Boys 

(And Why That Is The Stupidest Thing You Could Ever Say To A Little Girl)

(Source: madgirlf)

thingssheloves:

a little french in the afternoon by _ARSHIA_ on Flickr.
Yes I like Kpop…

bigbam-bigbam:

NO I don’t "wish I were Korean

NOR am I “trying to become Korean

NO I don’t wish my skin was lighter

OR my legs to be smaller

NO I DON’T just find Korean men attractive

I am a fan of Korean pop culture. I love the artists, the music, the fashion, the variety shows, the dramas. But that doesn’t mean I wish to throw away my own culture. 

It’s so true, though. I got into Kpop about 5 years ago, and many of my friends think my life revolves around Korea and Asia in general now.

Tags:
#kpop
As long as we can see the same sky, breathe the same air, step on the same planet, then you and I are not impossible.
—(via quote-station)
gypist:

flowury:

frankietea:

I HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR THIS FOR AGES ITS BACK ON MY DASH YESSS

I always Reblog this picture it’s so lovely, just imagine waking up with ur windows and balcony doors wide open, and you’d pick some clothes to throw on out of the backpack you urgently live out of. Maybe meet some friends or acquaintances down at the local owned coffee shop, people hanging clothes to dry off of their balconies. I don’t know, I went to a small town called Lourmrain in the countryside of southern France, and it reminds me of this.

This picture is so perfect even the sky in the back!